The fireside lounge at Traditions of Hanover was overflowing with friends, as Franklin and Edna Graver and other residents said “I do,” again.

The casually dressed Gravers shared the spotlight with two other couples during a vow renewal ceremony at the senior community on Feb. 7, officiated by Pastor Marnie Crumpler from Grace Church Bethlehem.

Married for almost 70 years, the Gravers had never renewed their vows. “It sounded good,” said Edna, smiling.

The Gravers love story began in September 1944, when Franklin and Edna were elected to the Northampton High School Service Society.

“At the time, I didn’t know her,” said Franklin. “The teacher asked if everyone knew everyone else, and I raised my hand and said ‘I didn’t know these two girls in front of me.’ Edna was one of those girls.”

But, it wasn’t until a dance, sponsored by the Service Society, that Franklin would get the opportunity to sweep Edna off her feet.

“I picked up on her and we danced every dance,” said Franklin. “And, afterward I walked her home talking her ear off.”

Edna sweetly shared a laugh recalling that evening. “Yes, he did! We had a class in Home Economics about how to handle yourself on a first date, well I didn’t need any of that advice because he took care of it all.”

From that night, Edna walked away with a good impression. “He was very friendly. And his shirt smelled so good; it’s funny what you remember,” she said.

Franklin too was taken back, “She was very quiet, which has changed a lot over the years,” he said laughing. “She’s a strong woman. She not only had guts and gumption, but she also had an aptitude, too.”

The couple had dated for five years before walking down the aisle of a full church. With just two weeks to plan, Franklin and Edna were joined in matrimony on Oct.16, 1949, and following the ceremony, a tea party reception.

“It was a beautiful day,” said Edna, reminiscing. “As we drove to Reading on our wedding day, we had an ice cream cone on the way down.”

And if you’re looking for the secret to a lasting marriage, “Don’t go to bed mad,” said Edna.

“From a man’s point of view, find yourself a woman as good as Edna,” said Franklin, gazing at her.

The couple has shared many memories, much joy and laughter, and have also overcome financial hurdles and family tragedy, and yet show no signs of slowing down. “The fact that we’re still as healthy as we are at the age of 91, and still together and still in love, that’ll never change!” said Franklin, smiling.

“Our greatest joy is having four children, five grandchildren, and five great-grandchildren,” said Edna.

And life at Traditions of Hanover is good! After the couple chose to downsize, they’re enjoying the fun activities and cherished companionships. “We’ve made a whole new set of friends, and this is home to us now,” shared Edna.

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