New Year's resolutions come and go.

Often they are short-lived, typically lasting no longer than a few days to a few weeks. What should each of us resolve to do this coming year? What should each of us hope for and wish for this new year?

Throughout our communities are family members and neighbors who may be in need or want.

There are those at our workplaces, schools and churches who are hurting and in need of an ear, shoulder, hand or heart.

Resolve to take a closer look around you this coming year and connect with those who may need the friendship and companionship of another .

Make a resolution to consider the thousands in the Lehigh Valley who are currently without jobs, without homes and without hope, who are doubling up, living with family or friends, living in homeless shelters or on the streets, without a place to call home.

Too often we are more concerned about our own desires and needs.

We'd rather strive for the tangible objects, goals and affections from others we consider necessary for survival and success.

Are these things really that important?

I work part time, once a week, at a homeless shelter in the Lehigh Valley. I often ask myself: Why do I continue to come back?

The answer is simpler than I like to admit. It's because of what the experience teaches me.

I have learned life revolves less around my own wants and should focus more on those who are truly in need.

I never make a New Year's resolution because I know I will not fulfill it or I'll just create one that is too unrealistic.

What I do know is I will care more about others I come in contact with on a daily basis.

Or, I'll take the time to share a cup of coffee with a friend who may not feel life is treating him or her fairly.

And, I'll visit family more this year than I have in the past.

It's the simple things in life – actions and activities that all of us can commit ourselves to – that can become a resolution that will not only benefit each of us personally, but positively impact the communities in which we live.

Maybe our simple acts of caring will spread further, into neighboring communities.

For me, at least, resolving to care more about others is a commitment I might just be able to keep and a resolution worth keeping.

Happy New Year!

Mark Reccek

editorial assistant

Whitehall-Coplay Press

Northampton Press

Catasauqua Press