What qualities define an extraordinary neighbor?

Hurricane Sandy brought much of the eastern seaboard to its knees. The visual images of devastation leave no doubt as to her power. But every action creates a reaction and Sandy's wrath is no exception. Her fury roused our sometimes drowsy compassion and her violence created unanticipated harmony.

From political adversaries uniting to aid those suffering to empathetic strangers donating food, the outreach has been inspiring.

So, how will we remember Sandy? Many Lehigh Valley residents experienced unfamiliar disconnectedness as power lines snapped and trees lost their footing. Houses went dark; neighborhoods went silent. And then, the climate changed.

Even before Sandy hit, travelers encountered electrical workers rolling in from other states and outlying areas to support PPL and Met-Ed crews. Poised and prepared for long shifts, power company workers began fixing almost before Sandy stopped howling. Through arrangements with local markets, the power companies also provided residents with free ice and bottled water.

On the coast, the Red Cross and similar agencies sprang to life.

Likewise, private organizations and individuals mobilized. For example, at 632 State St. in Emmaus, Dent Tech's owner Chris Gloss and general manager Shawn Cooney are supporting Ocean County Hunger Relief. They have opened the business as a collection site for food, clothing and paper goods to be donated to Sandy's victims at the New Jersey shore.

Passionate about assisting the reconstruction effort, Gloss and Cooney will continue to accept and to deliver donated goods for as long as necessary.

Most people have risen to Sandy's challenge in more subtle but no less important ways. While many traffic lights lacked power, drivers spontaneously stopped and courteously took turns moving through intersections. Neighbors shared. Those with generators often invited those without to plug in. Younger folks checked up on elderly people and offered assistance. Houses with power resources became gathering places.

"We still have hot water if you want to shower." "Our generator pretty much runs the house. Let's get together and watch a movie. It'll take your mind off the storm." "I've got a propane grill. Want a hot meal?" "Would you like a cup of coffee?" "Sure, we have room in our freezer."

Such small kindnesses made an enormous difference and demonstrated the extraordinariness of our neighbors. Sandy brought home to us both the might of Mother Nature and also the depth of human kindness. We faced the dark, the cold, and the damage; hopefully, we will recall the compassion.

Still seeking an extraordinary neighbor? Check the mirror.